So I kicked off with a subject 12 days ago though I didn’t get the responses I wanted, but its fine. You can still check it out Boy-Girl and still drop your comments.
I mentioned that one of the key elements in a relationship is "Trust". Yes this is very vital but with trust comes communication. Often times in a relationship or friendship we tend to assume a lot.
Communication can be achieved irrespective of trust, but it can be enhanced if there is trust.
Most relationships today lack this “Communication” which then leads to heart traumas which most of the time the ladies are mostly affected judging from the statistics.
Assumption is also one major cause of broken homes, friendships and relationships. The fear or pride of approaching your friend or partner over a truth or something you discovered, or something you wish to share with him or her leads you concluding in your head using the little info you have about that matter.
Assumption is a killer and the way to apprehend it is through communication. How do we get out of this state? When we found ourselves in this state it’s usually so difficult to pull ourselves or bring ourselves to find out the actual truth or resolve the matter. Why? So I sometimes wonder, I’m here thinking she betrayed me, why? Just because I found something that insinuates that she did.
Don’t be too fast. I know there are evidences, messages, hints or clues that when you come across even a lame man would easily interpret and come to a conclusion without any further explanation. But I still think the matter should be approached and be on the safe side, hear from the horse’s mouth instead. So I assumed and here I am having grudges in my heart over her because I discovered something I never got a confirmation to.
You don’t trust this person, and you’ve got doubt in your heart so you did your own findings and discovered something. Oh you were right all along? Alright let’s assume you were right along, at least be bold enough to confront him or her to get a proper explanation and confirmation before you make your final decision. I know it’s usually not so easy to do this; communicate, when you can actually see the whole truth glaring right before you but just do. Now do not approach him/her with the intention to do anything crazy or stupid, for you might end up hurting yourself more or paying for something or a crime that you would have easily avoided.
So kick out those thoughts and assumptions in your head, act maturely and communicate rightly………………….
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