Have you come to the moment where you just sit back and relax and observe yourself?
Study yourself, study your patterns, your habits, what triggers you and what does not trigger you, the trauma you're facing right now, maybe from childhood, the anxieties, things that make you anxious, whether it's by stepping out or socializing with others, your insecurities, your addiction, very important, that keeps holding you back.
Once you see all these things, then that unconscious becomes conscious. You know what really triggers you, you know what problem and where you're coming from, you know what to expect.
At this moment you know what they are
and how they can even control you. At this moment you have to, you become so unstoppable that nothing really shakes you again. This moment nothing really does you anymore because you are already aware of yourself.
Self-awareness is the key to success. The first stage you have to undergo, knowing what you are, who you are, your big points and how you can maximize your strengths.
