In the world in which we live day to day, there are various circumstances and situations that lead us to think, as our actions should be. Once I read a book called "Why bad things happen to good people?", Author Ivan Gutierrez, where in his text he maintains that in repeated opportunities of our lives there are cases and things where we look for the root of our problems in places or in less indicated circumstances, blaming us for bad luck, spells, among others, without stopping to think that the real root of the problems is in ourselves, in what we think, do, in the attitude towards actions own internal as the external actions of the environment in which we live daily.
Such is the case of someone very close, who really in opportunities, do not present the best situations. It is a person, like the few that I have known, who is in the best disposition to help his fellow men, perhaps most of the time, he does it with the wrong people or in the wrong places.
Although they say that we have to help unconditionally, I think that there are opportunistic people who take advantage of this type of people. That's when I return to the teaching left by this book, I think the best thing is to surround ourselves with really valuable people and not for what they can have economically, but noble people of heart that share at least ideals of tranquility, honesty and sincerity.
It is to know that there are people who walk in wrong worlds, while they do not accept their mistake because unfortunately they do not want to leave there. To err is human, rectify of wise, although there are people who prefer to always follow their mistake.
I formed myself in a Catholic home, where my moral principles were well unfounded, with the example of my parents, to help those who need it. Without entering into religion, those who have no moral basis, totally away from moral and spiritual commitments, incredulous even of themselves, are the ones who are a little more difficult to become good people, without this sounding a bit selfish and until I judge, I just stop to think, because to cause harm to people who help us unconditionally.
The human being is the slave of his destruction, we are well, wanting to be wrong, we are calm wanting to get out of the routine, we long for and desire the constant changes for good or for bad. We must try to do good, to have correct behaviors, God's time is perfect, everything is given in its precise moment, to appreciate people sincerely and to surround ourselves with valuable people is the success for an accurate coexistence.