Masturbation is dangerous

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Greetings to you all, it will be my pleasure to share my views and experiences about masturbation and how dangerous it is to it's victim, so kindly be patient to read it to the end as I will be sharing my own personal experience about it and it may be of help to you or someone close to you.

Definition/Introduction

According to wikipedia

Masturbation is the sexual stimulation of one's own genitals for sexual arousal or other sexual pleasure, usually to the point of orgasm.

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I will beable to say more about this particicular topic because I have once been a victim of it, they is more about the context of masturbation that many of it's victim don't pay maximum attention to and at a long run will destroy their life to the lowest minimum.

My personal experience
At my tender agesinful of 17 years of age, around 2007, that's about ten years ago, I was initiated/introduced into the act of masturbation by a big brother and a friend who told me how sinful it is to go into furnication that since the priest do preached in the church against fornication, that they are other ways one can still enjoy his or her self without committing fornication, he showed me everything and I got used to it and became very addicted to it such that in a day I will practice it up to three times, this kept on going until when I left my village and travelled.

I couldn't beable to relate and mingled with others especially the opposite sex the female once, I saw them as nothing as I can get all the pleasure I needed by myself, they were times where the discussion about masturbation were raised in a youth gathering in our church and it was spelled out that masturbation is also as dangerous as fornication as what ever you think about and already done by the mind is already a in before God, that victims of it should try and do away with it, after this youth seminar, I was confused, I made up my mind to stop it but all was null and void, as I couldn't stop it then, I continued in the act till it almost destroyed my life spiritually.

When ever I perform the act, I must have a wet dream at night whereby I will be having sex at night with someone I don't know from anywhere, things started going wrong in my life, my life was shattered and I was in a state of confusion, when ever I go to a prayer session, I will be told that I have a spiritual wife who is manipulating my life, that she got into my life through masturbation, that the act of masturbation is the act of making love with an unseen forces, the story kept going on and on.

It got to the point that I had a lady friend who is actually my fiancee, on several occasion if I want to have intercurse with her, I will not last for two minute on her, my life was a total mess, and I did not know what to do.

But thank God for God that I was opportuned to listen to a radio program which was anchored by one of my mentor who is a relationship life doctor, on one of his talk, someone asked a question about masturbation, and he did justice to the question he said:

when you are masturbating, you quickly get to the point of orgasm within a minute or two, on the same way, if you're having a sexual intercurse, you will also last not morethan a minute or two because your body system has adapt to that for a long period of time.

On hearing this word, I personally knew he was talking to me, and coupled with the spiritual wife of a thing, that was the beginning of my freedom from the prison of masturbation, I needed to trash and kill masturbation by all means before it kills me and after all sort of deliverance, I became a normal man who can perform as long as I wish and my life came back to the best as I have learnt my lessons of being imprisonment in masturbation for ten good years.

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causes of masturbation

Masturbation is mostly caused by viewing and watching of porn pictures and videos.
Irrational thinking about someone you love.
Bad peer group or company
Avoiding pregnancy
Avoiding the sin of fornication

Remedy of masturbation

Avoid any occasion of viewing or watching any pornography related photo or video.

Avoid the company of bad friends.

You are a product of your taught, therefore stop thinking irrationally.
It is ignorance to embrace masturbation in place of furnication, both are sin and emanates from the mind, but masturbation is the worse as you're making love with an unknown spirit, so avoid both.

effect of masturbation

Continous and excessive release of sperm daily can cause low sperm count.
Masturbation usually cause quick ejaculation which will make your partner not to enjoy your fun with you.
Countinous masturbation can cause eye problem as the release of sperm and eggs are much.
Long term masturbation can leads to premature aging.
Victims will lack interest in the opposite sex.

My advice

Masturbation is an addict, if it gets into your life it will take long before you can escape from it.

Masturbation is a sin and is more dangerous as furnication, so don't give it a try as you may regret doing so.

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Masturbation can never allow you to perfom well as a real man or wonan when you are in need of a sexual intercurse as you will only last for two minute, so keep it off your mind.