We have all been in a situation where we have to quit working in a place, a project, a habit, or in a relationship with a person. The reason might be because we are not comfortable being there or you just have to do it because of one situation and the other.
I have made friends with people Which I quit doing after some days because it’s not valuable and I see they don’t appreciate my worth being friends with them.
Well, I should take you on a journey on how I quit being friends with a lady because she changed.
There was this girl I make friends with at 100 level and that was when we just gain admission into the college. She was a good girl and we have always been helpful to one another by helping each other with one or two things. Not like we both come from a rich family but we have all things available to us then. We all know how parents tend to give us anything we want when we are been a fresher to a new school. So we don’t lack anything and we always render help to other students that might need one. Everyone was just normal and there were always good vibes between us all.
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It was a wonderful thing having a coursemate and a good friend in one person and everything was going on smoothly between us and after some months people start saying we look alike because they always see us with each other.
But when we get to 200level in college she starts dating a guy who we don’t even know his source of income. Everything about this lady changed. Her dressing, and her way of approaching people(she starts talking rudely and with no respect). A person that always indoors changes to someone that is always going on outing and attending birthday parties at night. I didn’t say that is bad but doing that frequently as a student and not focusing on the main assignment which is your education that you came to do in school is very bad.
A person I know very well change to someone I don’t even know again because her character change which I was amazed about. I tried talking to her several times but she won’t budge to my words and there are times she insults me and said I am jealous because she is living a good life with her boyfriend. She even went to the extent of living with him in college.
I tried talking to her as the good friend that I am but her reply is I should mind my business and should not mind her own business. I was very hurt because she is someone I like as a friend and don’t like seeing her go astray but she didn’t yield to my words.
After trying my best to talk to her about her character and lifestyle that has changed and she didn’t heed me I decide to quit being friends with her because I don’t want people to start thinking like the proverb that says “birds of the same feather, flock together”. And yes from onset I like being friends with people that will add value to my life and makes me grow positively in one aspect and the other and if see you are not doing this then it’s better we go our separate ways.
I have to quit because I can’t be friends with a person that doesn’t know the value of friendship. if she does she will heed my advice and stop attending parties every time when there are better things we have to do as a college students.
Quitting being friends with her was something that was hard to do on my part because it’s not easy when you drift apart from someone you have been friends with for a long time. And yes we have always sat together in lecture rooms so not sitting together anymore creates a vacuum in my heart and let me feel like I lose a person . I sure do miss being friends with her and all the good days we spent together but I should have to let everything go and mingle with people that will be good to me and be of good behavior.
Thanks for reading to the end.
