Friendship is a beautiful thing, and the power of human connections is truly remarkable. As someone who used to travel for work, I have friends all over Malaysia, but when COVID-19 hit, I had to go back and stay in my hometown. I didn't have many friends here since they also travel frequently, but one thing I realised is that my friends always remember me even though we are far apart.
Last night, one of my friends called me and asked me to get ready for her arrival in December. It's funny because she mentioned this too early; it's only November now. I think she's so excited to tell me that she's coming. She could travel back from other districts, but she chose to fly from my hometown and back to Kuala Lumpur, where she's residing.
This is why I began writing. I feel so grateful to have a friend like this. I know that for some people, it may not seem like a big deal. However, for me, anyone I consider a friend becomes like family and holds a special place in my heart.
Friendship is a wonderful bond that brings happiness, support, and meaning to our lives. It's a connection that goes beyond family and is built on trust, understanding, and shared experiences.
She has been offering me jobs again, as she's currently singing at Hard Rock Kuala Lumpur. But I just told her I'd think about it. Now I know what they mean when they say that we don't have to be close every day to say that we are good friends. Good friends will always be there, unexpectedly.
The beauty of friendship lies in the love and acceptance it offers. Friends are there for us in good times and bad, providing a shoulder to lean on and an ear to listen to. They celebrate our successes, share our laughter, and provide comfort during tough times. Friendships can positively impact our mental and emotional well-being.
I have to say, she knows what I've been through during my darkest years. I was mentally exhausted from being mistreated by people I trusted. My friends were the ones who came to my aid and helped me stand tall again, besides my family. Their unwavering support has been with me since I met them until now.
Having friends allows us to feel seen, heard, and valued. They provide a sense of belonging and help us deal with life's challenges. Friendships also help us grow and learn from each other, gaining new perspectives and insights.
This is the third person who has surprised me this year by coming here and visiting me suddenly, even if it's just for half a day. It's heartwarming to know that even though we may not see each other often, the bond of friendship remains strong. The beauty of friendships and the power of human connections are truly something to cherish.
I must say that friendship isn't limited by distance or time. True friends can pick up where they left off, no matter how long they've been apart. They offer stability and continuity in a changing world.
I've encountered a few cases where some people believe they have a friend, but in reality, they're just taking advantage of them. It's not right to use your friends as a means to an end or to treat them well just to get something from them.
Trust is the most important aspect of a genuine friendship, and it's essential to never speak ill of your friends to others, even to your partner. If you talk negatively about your friends, it breaks trust in your friendship, and it shows that you're not being a responsible friend.
Last but not least, friendship is a deep connection that provides love, support, and happiness. The power of human connection is clear in the way friendships improve our well-being, personal growth, and overall joy. Just like the song says, "For good times and bad times, I'll be by your side forever more; that's what friends are for." (Dionne Warwick)
