Three weeks, thats a tough one. I feel for you even now. YEah it is rough, I am doing exactly what you say above, dealing with it as best as I can. I dont think it is the textbook right way at all but it is the only way that works for me. The days are dark indeed but I know that it will get better. Just got to get through the next couple of weeks which will be the worst. The funeral is next week and I am dreading that. sigh what will be will be