This is my opinion on marriage,
"Marriage is like shoe. When you wear
oversize be ready to drag it along through out
life, and when you marry under-size be ready
to feel the pains through out life."
One thing about marriage is that you don't
drop your shoe or remove it at any point no
matter how painful or how stressful it is -
That is why I thought it necessary to write
you this letter
Dear Singles,
When you are ready to buy your own shoe
please take note of these three things
- Physical appearance: Do not look for the
beautiful once, the nice once or the cheap
once. Look for the one that is your size.
Not every handsome, wealthy or intelligent
guy is for you, not every beautiful woman is
for you.
Look for the one that is meant for you, the
once that aligns with your values and belief,
the one who you meet at your life's journey.
It is important to know where you're going in life before you think of getting a wife.
- Position: All sizes of shoes are not placed in
the same place. There is a place for cover
shoes, rope shoes, canvers, snickers etc. We
have Children sizes, young people's sizes and
the adult size.
Know where to get your own shoe. Your size
can not be everywhere my brother, your type
cannot be everywhere my sister.
You cannot be a Muslim or Christian, and be
looking for a wife material at a club. Your
wife or husband can't just be everywhere.
Stick to your values and therein you shall find
someone like you, but when your values are
not defined anyone can just match you.
Discover yourself and define your values
- Perception: In this kind of shoe purchasing
enterprise, you are not permitted to try the
shoe before you buy.
This is why it is important to seek guidance
and counseling, from people who have bought
shoes before or are into the business of
directing people to the right shoes
(Pastors,clerics and Relationship coaches)
And most importantly to avoid much time
wasting time, simply consult the shoe
manufacturer to tell you your size (God
Almighty).
"You do not prepare for wedding, you prepare
for marriage."
Ladies these days get so motivated when they
attend wedding and they will quickly want to
say yes to that guy.
Wait!!! It is not just the wedding Ooh,
wedding is just one day. After the wedding.
WHAT NEXT?
Finally, it is not something you rush to the
market and just pick a shoes because you like
or can purchase it.
Ask questions
-Where is this shoe made from? (Background)
-What's the size (Values)
-How much (His/Her interest)
-How long will it last (His/Her Character)
-Who made it? (Is she/He of the same faith
This is compatibility)
-Will it match me? (This is whether he/she
love you and will accept you the way you are)
Dear one. Remember, many are dragging their
foot and they would hardly reach their
destinies, many are feeling endless pains and
wish they could pull off the shoes but no
way!!!
I have seen people with beautiful shoes and
when they show you their foot, you will see
scares.
Beloved, it is not about the physical, it is the
size, you can't know the size from afar so
come close, build a relationship first but
remember 'you are not permitted to try it
before you buy it'
And for those who have purchased the wrong
shoes, you can still make it your size again if
you'd consult the manufacturer(God).