The rate of divorce in our society today is highly increasing everyday by day causing trauma and pain. People who are still young within the age of 30 to 45 years get divorce almost everyday, living with troubles and trauma. Divorce has a way of affecting the individuals involved and sometimes it might affect relatives and the society at large.. looking at the front topic from Hive learners week 165 edition 1, talking about divorce and its effects, the whole lot of people have been in a great trauma and have never come out of it because of effect of divorce. I have a whole lot of clients who always come to you when you ask some certain question about marital status you hear most of them saying they are divorce. And these people who are divorce have children at home. Some of the children of the people who divorce lack this Parenthood impact. Some of them are being separated from their father why some are separated from their mother. This is causing a great harm to the society and the children at large. Even the couples who are divorced have to consider a whole lot of things before divorcing, this include who this process or these action will affect the most, will it affect our children the most or us the most.
Some of the times divorcing process is always favorable to either one partner in the Union. And as a matter of facts only 10% of the total divorce marriage where the agreement of the two partners, then 80% are in favor of just one partner in the Union and the remaining 10% is in favor of children. It is high time we consider our children in the picture especially when divorce is an option. In a situation where two partners are not working as plan or as you wish to and the tend to move for divorce. If children are in the picture then, there should be rethink. Because first of all children is what mostly hold to partners to get her most of the times. So when they are not being considered that means the marriage was not valued at the first place. Unless in a situation where the two partners have no children or a child.
Honestly most of the time the effects and the trauma are mostly on the children because they tend to lack one impact of one of the parents. It can either be that of the mother or that of the Father. The honest truth here is that most of the divorce cases don't favor the children the trauma is always much on the children but then we need somebody to take care of this children and it can either be one of the partners either the father or the mother. So in a situation where these two couples are great that one of them will be with the children or the child and it should be in a situation where the child will be comfortable as well. Because before a divorce case will come up I believe that the marriage is no more favorable to either one of the partner or both of them. Therefore we should always consider our children before divorce. I need a situation where the trauma of staying in the relationship or marriage is greater than the divorce and the effect it will have on the children divorce is always an option.
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