Some people are just so good at seeing only the speck in someone's eye, but not clearly the plank on their own eye. It is really possible that whatever irritates us about others can also be the same hidden flaws that we have deep within us, flaws that may be in a different form but are actually of the same essence. The very thing we most hate in a person may be rooted in our own self-hatred.
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From @marysent