It's one thing to be Intentional about helping while another for your help to be disregarded . It's even worse when it becomes a major cause of inconvenience for you later..

Not many people are worth helping. But the tricky part is you don't know which from which. At the end of the day,u live with ur decisions.

I've been in a situation where I helped a colleague live in my space and it wasn't really healthy later on.