It's always harder to see what's right in front of us most especially if it has to do with us . We think we know ourselves but not as much as others do as they are recipients to our actions. It's always good to be mindful of others opinions as regards you though it shouldn't be a directive but more of an awareness. Then and only then can one meditate and self reflect if it's true or just emotions talking .

The goal is to become better . There's always room for self improvement