Every relationship goes through a natural cycle. At the beginning, you fall head over heels in love; you wait for their calls, you want to stay in touch and you love their habits.
Falling in love is a spontaneous and passive experience, where you don't need to do anything to feel that connection. However, as months or years go by, that initial euphoria begins to fade. This is a normal process in all relationships.
Over time, phone calls can become a nuisance, contact is not always welcome, and your partner's quirks, which you once found adorable, can become irritating.
The symptoms of this stage vary in every relationship, and it is common to notice a big difference between the infatuation phase and a more monotonous or even conflictual stage.
At this point, both you and your partner may question whether you are with the right person. As you remember the intense euphoria of the love you once shared, the desire to experience those feelings with someone else may arise, often leading to a breakup.
However, the key to success in a relationship lies not in finding the perfect person, but in learning to love who you already have.
Often, people blame their partner for their unhappiness and look outside for what they lack. This can lead to infidelity or taking refuge in work, hobbies or distractions.
The solution is not outside the relationship, but within each of you. Maintaining love requires daily effort, time and, above all, wisdom.
Love is a decision, not just a feeling. Remember that fate determines who comes into your life, but you decide who stays and who goes.
