There's actually something I could have done differently, but then, I choose not to.

And that will be being self-centered and focusing only on myself.

The thing is I once went through a long term illness that kind of made me withdraw, during those period I learnt a while lot of things about humans and all. I also lost myself, yea. There are a lot of things I stopped doing, and a lot of things stop having meaning to me.

So, after surviving such, I could have choose to do my things differently, I can't deny that the illness did affect me an my relationship with people, but I choose not to allow it take over me. If it had, no one would have blamed me. Many people would have thought it was caused by, maybe the trauma and all I experienced.

But I chose not to let that experience stop me from being caring and looking out for others. I try my possible best to show up for people, help when I could and even run certain charity deeds.

So, what I did differently was the refusal to become hardened and bitter. Rather, I choose to be more caring, compassionate and loving.

So, that's doing different for me.
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