Love Vs Money: The Hard Choice.

Love Vs Money: The Hard Choice. | Ecency

In all honesty, I won't deny that I've found myself here before. Was caught in-between both love and money and to be sincere with you, it wasn't an easy decision to make. Choosing between love and money is not so easy when you're in love and responsibility is very choking too.

I was with this person back then that I loved and cared for, we had a different kind of connection. We were best of friends and lovers, but like I said earlier, reality sets in and responsibilities began to choke. And money isn't that easy to make, the little coming by was not even sufficient for me alone. We had love, but love can't feed, clothe or house us, money needs to be involved.

So, I had to take my time to think things through, I didn't stop loving her but I don't want to make her suffer and turn the love we share into frustration. It wasn't an easy decision, but I made it. I asked to be given some space so as to allow me build myself first. It wasn't easy like I said earlier, even as I write now.... It's not easy. But I had to make thatbhard choice.

But then, the truth remains that there's time for everything just like the preacher said, and timing as well matters in anything we are doing or getting involved in. So, love is indeed sweet, I can attest to that but it can become a burden, it can become frustrating when certain things like money is not involved.

We shouldn't ignore reality because of emotions/feelings, at the same time we should not shut our hearts out completely too. The Bible says... wisdom is profitable to direct. So that in the quest of finding means to be stable financially, we won't lost out on the good partner meant for us too...

So, be honest with, and to yourself, know what you can handle, if you're staying then be ready to endure, or help build together, and if you're leaving make sure you're leaving to grow and not out of fear. In short, it's all about you at the end of the day, it's you and your decision/choice. So choose what gives you peace.

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