Happy Sunday, Weekend Experiences friends. As we're almost at the end of the day, I'd like to share my thoughts on this weekend's topics. My chosen topic is as follows: 馃挅
Do you have the victim mentality or are you someone who takes responsibility and ownership? Explain.
Since I was very young, I've had to take on the role of a responsible woman, always trying to see the positive side of every situation. I won't deny that on many occasions in my life I've wanted to throw in the towel, but the feeling of hope and motivation to move forward has always won, leaving the role of victim aside...
I am infinitely grateful to my parents for the upbringing they gave me. Of all the things I learned from them, the most important value I acquired was responsibility. My parents were very responsible in raising me and my sisters, and they supported us until we finished high school.
From then on, I had to face life's challenges alone, mostly, and I've learned to solve my problems on my own without asking anyone for help. I've never liked blaming others for the things that happen to me. I believe that everything depends on how we act, and that each of us is to blame or deserves what happens to us.
I describe myself as a proactive woman. I think a lot about things that can happen and try to find solutions in advance. I like to take the initiative. I do my best not to complain about things that don't go as I planned. On the contrary, I am grateful for everything I have been through, for everything I have, and for everything I am. I am willing to take risks to achieve my goals.
There's a phrase in this world that really bothers me. You don't know how much I hate hearing someone say the phrase "I don't have anyone to support me." Is it that we were born together? Unless you're a twin, when we come into this world we arrive alone, and in the same way we must learn to solve our problems. Each of us is focused on our own lives, and each of us must learn to live ours as responsibly as possible.
I am happy with all the results I have achieved throughout my life, for all the efforts I have made to be responsible, every day I think and try to achieve the things I set out to do, even if I don't achieve them, even if I try a thousand times, I continue insisting and fighting to improve my life and always fight to be responsible for my actions.
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