Initiations in love can be painful, because they require us to learn about ourselves, to confront our selfishness, and destructive behaviors, to strive with fear, we can resist our learning, but once we discover that learning to love is the purpose of our life, it is quite easy to identify what we need to learn next.
We often need a personal crisis to learn, you wonder if you have lost all your possibilities permanently, or to recover after having failed so many times in love, you do not see how your life could be successful and happy again, fortunately , it is never too late.
First of all, even if you have been slow to learn about love, it is never too late, to love someone is to see and seek their potential, even if pursuing that potential meant taking it away from you, secondly, you learn that feedback is a gift From heaven, you need comments from others about how you are in your relationship, although you probably can never get enough honest comments.
You will see your own weakness behind your criticism and finally stop needing to be right, then you can act on the feedback immediately, without resistirte, discuss or self-justify, learn that love requires you to be humble and open to the way you affect to others, learn to be loved when someone sees your potential and goes after it by shining a light in your dark corners. enjoy your initiation in love, every day seems a good day to love, what good fortune is to love your family, and have your friends, known to love.
