Some people go through a childhood in which they are afraid of being trapped, not in a physical sense, like claustrophobia, but rather the psychological feeling of having no way out, not having space to make decisions, or to go back, maybe Due to the fact that growing up in a traditional and suffocating family, it may be the result of seeing the lives of the people around you.
It's not because you have a bad life; You could have been the perfect son during the same, representative of the student council, good in sports, best student in the class, everything that was expected of you fulfilled, everything sounds good, but the point is that you always felt that something was missing , many days you question it but, in the end, your obedience always wins, that part of you that asks for freedom, break rules, make your own decisions are always silenced when you go to sleep.
Different when you dream of the future life, you imagine yourself in a great adventure in the world in search of the meaning of life, you dream in school, in work, dreaming is the only thing that allows you to tolerate the exhausting life that you lead, it is a escape from reality, we all do so we dream of new cars, nicer jobs, a better house, a better lifestyle, one day we could wake up, we will remember our life and we will regret all the times we dream instead of acting, deep down , you will know that you will never live the life you want, the life you imagine, if you do not make important changes for fear of being trapped.
Start, for the first time, to live for you and you will feel relief, even health problems will begin to resolve, however, it may be the hardest thing you do, there are people who try to convince you that you are making a mistake, but the world It's too big to be stuck in a corner, and life is too short to not live it, so take off those chains, whatever it is that slows you down, it's not bad to have a little fear, it's okay not to know what comes next, but the only person who knows what is best for you is you.