We are free in love. Free to love, free to choose who we love, free to get overhead to do what is best for dear man. Freedom has not been stolen by anyone, even in love. Only love for freedom requires something. Asks for devotion, trust, attitude and perception of things that although free to maintain a relationship, it needs more than just sunglasses, a beach and the thought of a good sex match.
Men are many, women are as many. In real life, however, no one will ask about their number, but how much that man means for a woman or a woman for a man ... and how much effort each has made to maintain a relationship. Ask yourself what your last relationships were and how they ended each other. The same beginning, the same mean reproaches, the same endless taste. And that's because instead of building, you find a thousand answers to the question: why does not it work? Because he's too young and uncooped? Because she does not dress ok? Thoughts of two money.
There is no perfect love, as there is no perfect man: this should be understood by anyone who enters into a relationship. They all have qualities and defects alike. But if you love, you absolutely love it. If you hold on to a man, you also watch the moments when you see him dressed in panties in the morning. If you like a woman, you also like it without mascara and lipstick. Yes, you demonstrate, fight, change, but do not put this under the requirement of perfection. If he and she will love, they will find all the motives in the world to build their beautiful world, where nobody has one, and nobody reproaches anyone.
Men and women are in a permanent conflict, bad taste otherwise. A conflict between desires and interests, pleasures and hidden thoughts. It's simpler to want, to ask more, to claim something than to give, to listen and to leave from you. This also applies to women, but also to men. Some of them, once they hear a DA from the woman, will claim that she is his, will be possessive, will dominate and eventually destroy everything. Some of them will limit their love at two weekly meetings and many more requests for some money. Some say, because they are enough with head-to-head that have realized that being creative is more beautiful than being created. From here comes the mistakes, the wounds caused by the scandals and the great sense of guilt that no one has yet canceled in love. Though it's wrong.
All that matters is freedom! But the freedom to want alone, without imposing on him or her, to change something, to do better, to offer. Be the creator of a world that is divided into two. Love is not on rent nor on loan. Not even the dear man. Love either you give it as a whole, or you do not give it away. So be free to love the next man, but do not have him. Be free to give yourself the last chance of a love in which he is ready to do anything for a relationship and she understands that and claims. Be free to live your joys and sadness equally without judging them. Free to be happy together.
Believe me, even the most crazy and impossible relationship deserves a chance, if at its base is the thought of building, giving, and finding freedom in two. The man does not hire you and the woman is not on loan!