VERSION EN ESPAÑOL
Y digo me permito, debido a que llega un momento en el que ese duelo se hace más llevadero gracias al tiempo, que nos da espacio para la aceptación, pues si amigo lector, llega un momento en que sucede y entonces sentimos mucha paz en nuestro corazón, lloramos de alegría al recordar, el dolor de la pérdida está pero ahora damos paso a la resignación. Mi mamá falleció en circunstancias que aún me duelen, en esa época el virus del ZIKA afectó fuertemente a muchas personas, en algunos casos dependiendo del sistema inmunológico algunos pudimos aguantar y continuar nuestra vida; otros como en el caso de mi mamá se complicaron con el síndrome de Guilliam-Barré lo cual afectó los nervios perífericos, quedó paralizada pero consciente y me entristece escribir esto.
Estar consciente y no poder moverte debe ser terrible para una persona, en especial tan activa como ella lo era; sin embargo le tocó vivirlo y fallecer. El punto es, que escribir sobre ello me permite desahogarme, al expresar recuerdos, vivencias, podemos drenar, sin embargo la idea es no estancarnos, debemos continuar pues estamos vivos, y la vida como dice la letra de una popular cantante: " La vida es un regalo, que se disfruta como una gran fiesta". Se trata de valorarla debido a que no todos tienen esta oportunidad.
Recientemente fuí a un establecimiento de venta de telas y me encontré a una antigua compañera de clases y colega, me sorprendió ver su aspecto, si bien los años han transcurrido y ya no somos unas jovencitas. Estaba acompañada de una niña pequeña, su hija menor; en medio de la pequeña conversación me dice: ¡Sebastián falleció! mi esposo y yo nos sorprendimos pues lo expresó con mucha calma, seguidamente explicó que había sufrido un Accidente Cerebro Vascular y a partir de allí se agravó.
Expresaba que ella ahora veía la vida diferente, no quería enrollarse en situaciones, trataba de salir adelante y vivir la vida de la manera más sana posible. El punto es el siguiente: De las experiencias negativas aprendemos también, a veces es necesario que sucedan algunas cosas para que nos centremos en algo, cambiemos nuestra manera de pensar, valoremos mas entre otros. Ante una pérdida siempre tendremos un motivo para seguir adelante, iniciando por nosotros mismos, las cosas siempre pasan por una razón y debemos aprender de ello, para ti que me lees te envío mucha vibra positiva, ¡hasta pronto!
Fotos propias, teléfono Redmi Note11, Venezuela. Traductor DeepL.com
ENGLISH VERSION
A cordial greeting reader friend, welcome to my little space on Hive, where I share reflections and nice pictures. I like this monologue that at the same time becomes a nice interaction every time you read my writings which I appreciate very much. Anecdotes, sayings are part of my style in my writings, last month that marked the beginning of the year 2025 had a very significant date for me, one more year of the passing of my beloved mother; sad it will always be and it is inevitable but at the same time it is joyful because I allow myself to immerse myself in the memories and relive beautiful moments with her.
And I say I allow myself, because there comes a time when this mourning becomes more bearable thanks to time, which gives us space for acceptance, because yes, my friend reader, there comes a time when it happens and then we feel much peace in our hearts, we cry with joy when we remember, the pain of loss is there but now we give way to resignation. My mother passed away in circumstances that still hurt me, at that time the ZIKA virus strongly affected many people, in some cases depending on the immune system some of us were able to endure and continue our lives; others as in the case of my mother were complicated with Guilliam-Barre syndrome which affected the peripheral nerves, she was paralyzed but conscious and it saddens me to write this.
Being conscious and not being able to move must be terrible for a person, especially one as active as she was, yet she had to live through it and pass away. The point is, writing about it allows me to unburden myself, by expressing memories, experiences, we can drain, however the idea is not to stagnate, we must continue because we are alive, and life as the lyrics of a popular singer says: “Life is a gift, to be enjoyed as a great party”. It is about valuing it because not everyone has this opportunity.
Recently I went to a fabric store and I met an old classmate and colleague, I was surprised to see her appearance, although the years have passed and we are no longer young girls. She was accompanied by a little girl, her youngest daughter; in the middle of the small conversation she told me: Sebastian died! my husband and I were surprised because she expressed it very calmly, then she explained that he had suffered a stroke and from there he got worse.
She expressed that she now saw life differently, she did not want to get involved in situations, she tried to get ahead and live life in the healthiest way possible. The point is this: From negative experiences we also learn, sometimes it is necessary that some things happen so that we focus on something, change our way of thinking, value more among others. Before a loss we will always have a reason to move forward, starting with ourselves, things always happen for a reason and we must learn from it, for you who read me I send you a lot of positive vibes, see you soon!
Own photos, Redmi Note11 phone, Venezuela. Translator DeepL.com