Esa máquina del tiempo simboliza ese anhelo de nuestro corazón, esa necesidad de resolver lo inconcluso. Les cuento que también obviamente lo he experimentado pero he aprendido a soltar, tal vez por los golpes de la vida, tal vez sea mi fe en dios o simplemente la madurez. Me caracterizo por ser amante de la familia, sensible y cuando doy afecto lo hago sinceramente. Soy un ser humano y como tal experimento apegos, es normal pero esto en mi caso no significa que caiga en el egoismo, es decir no manipulo para retener, simplemente siento afecto por ejemplo como madre hacía mis hijos, como esposa, como amiga..pero conozco los límites de las situaciones y puedo despegarme aún cuando me duela.
Welcome to my blog in Hive, my space where I share anecdotes, experiences, a touch of nature and all my love to write.we all experience moments of sadness for different reasons but there are days when it seems that emotions invade you, you wake up with melancholy for a dream you had for example, it makes you review the family albums, you cry, you remember those who are not with us and everything that has bothered you, is that the human brain does not lose any detail. And surely at some point you thought: I would like to go back, as I would like to have a time machine to be there in those moments! Hug him for a minute, tell him I love you! are expressions that in those moments of melancholy we can repeat many times.
That time machine symbolizes that longing of our heart, that need to resolve the unfinished. I tell you that I have also obviously experienced it but I have learned to let go, maybe because of the blows of life, maybe it is my faith in God or simply maturity. I am characterized for being a family lover, sensitive and when I give affection I do it sincerely. I am a human being and as such I experience attachments, it is normal but this in my case does not mean that I fall into selfishness, that is I do not manipulate to retain, I simply feel affection for example as a mother to my children, as a wife, as a friend ... but I know the limits of the situations and I can detach even when it hurts me.
Sin embargo hay quienes son todo lo contrario y obviamente es cuando las inseguridades toman el control, tendemos a autosabotearnos y esto nos hace daño y a los que están a nuestro alrededor. Pero la idea de este contenido no es generar tristeza es compartir experiencias de vida, en momentos tristes de mi vida me he aferrado a personas que representan esa solidez en mi vida como mi esposo por ejemplo, con quien he compartido tanto y me ha demostrado amor incondicional. No es malo contar con esa persona, aferrarse en esos momentos, de hecho es la idea sino estuvieramos solos en el mundo, lo que no debemos hacer es depender de esa persona para salir a flote en todo. Es como el caso de las personas que se acostumbran a consultar a un vidente una tarotista para poder dar un paso, conozco a muchas personas así, se vuelven manipulables.
Entonces debemos enfocarnos en ser más expresivos con aquellos que realmente nos importan, ¡me cuesta, soy de poco hablar! bueno escriba, expreselo con gestos, los detalles hacen la diferencia pero no pierda un tiempo valioso que el día de mañana puede anhelar , la máquina del tiempo aún es un simbolismo, no puede retroceder atrás. Piense bien antes de hacer las cosas, no actue por impulso porque las palabras , las acciones no podemos recogerlas así como así. Aprende a soltar, aprende a disfrutar los momentos, somos temporales en esta vida.
However, there are those who are the opposite and obviously it is when insecurities take over, we tend to self-sabotage ourselves and this hurts us and those around us. But the idea of this content is not to generate sadness is to share life experiences, in sad moments of my life I have clung to people who represent that solidity in my life as my husband for example, with whom I have shared so much and has shown me unconditional love. It is not bad to count on that person, to hold on in those moments, in fact it is the idea if we would not be alone in the world, what we should not do is to depend on that person to get by in everything. It is like the case of people who get used to consult a psychic or a tarot reader to be able to take a step, I know many people like that, they become manipulable.
Then we must focus on being more expressive with those who really matter to us, it's hard for me, I'm not very talkative! Well write, express it with gestures, the details make the difference but do not waste valuable time that tomorrow you may long for, the time machine is still a symbolism, you can not go backwards. Think well before you do things, don't act on impulse because words , actions we can't pick them up just like that. Learn to let go, learn to enjoy the moments, we are temporary in this life.
Algo muy importante, usted vale y si se lo propone puede lograr muchas cosas. Las personas van y vienen de nuestras vidas, cumplen una etapa junto a nosotros y luego deben irse. Pasa con los hijos, quienes crecen y luego forman sus familias, tal vez se vayan a vivir lejos de los padres, en otro estado o país, la vida es así. Es normal que sintamos miedo a estar solos en especial en nuestra vejez, pero saben que.. si hemos disfrutado de la vida, de esos momentos, de esas personas, si hemos cerrado ciclos, nos sentiremos bien cuando las separaciones lleguen, aprenderemos a convivir con la soledad, con nosotros mismos. A todos nos toca en algún momento separarnos de quienes amamos y seguir sin ellos pero si los recuerdos han sido buenos te fortalecerán.Gracias por llegar hasta el final.
Something very important, you are worth and if you put your mind to it you can achieve many things. People come and go in our lives, they fulfill a stage with us and then they have to leave. It happens with children, who grow up and then form their families, maybe they go to live far away from their parents, in another state or country, life is like that. It is normal to be afraid of being alone, especially in our old age, but you know what... if we have enjoyed life, those moments, those people, if we have closed cycles, we will feel good when the separations come, we will learn to live with loneliness, with ourselves. We all have to separate from those we love at some point and go on without them, but if the memories have been good, they will strengthen us, thank you for making it to the end.