In the XXI century, modernity has left behind that social conventionalism established to establish a loving relationship and now it is more comfortable for many, diffuse, ephemeral and superficial relationships.
Flirteo, messages and videos called by the smartphone, weekends, a coffee a week, and pum !!! ... the question arises: Are we something? And we definitely have the need to name our relationships: friends, friends with rights, couple, boyfriends, lovers, spouses, among others.
If you are dating someone, it is important to understand that the question "Are we something?" Sometime it will arise, and it is not a matter of wanting to give it a name or label, but rather the need to be clear and avoid hurting the hearts There should not be much time to talk about where the relationship is going, an amorphous relationship creates false expectations, at the end it gives the feeling of deceit, contempt and loss of time.
If you are interested in a stable relationship, when you see that time has passed and you do not move to a next level with whom you are dating, you should dare to let go, you should not waste your time with someone who finds it more comfortable to benefit from the moments that you You give it to him and he does not care about your essence, feelings and expectations. In the end, people who want superficial relationships are unstable and drag many fears.
Do not settle for less than what you want and deserve, surely someone will come who will know who you are and feel proud to give a name and stability to the relationship you may have.
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