For a prosperous and successful person. My grandmother was very beautiful in her youth. And her friend is very practical. And this friend, Zina, specially went to play volleyball - on the closed platform in the city garden the "golden youth" gathered. Zina chose one student, a professor's son; he graduated from the medical institute and had great prospects. Very great effort has been made by Zina, that this young man will like. And overcome the resistance of his high-ranking parents. She did not attend training, but did everything right. She married successfully; advantageous party! Although not very fond of her husband; Not really. But it is not important. It is important to succeed!And my grandmother met a frontline grandfather. Seven times wounded. He was from the village, from the mines of the Urals. In your pocket - a louse on a lasso. He worked and finished journalism in absentia. And he was secretary of the Komsomol at the factory. He lived in the dorm room, even in the corner, behind the cotton curtain stood a bed. And the stool still was. And incredible love. Modest, shy, as it was then, and completely unprofitable. My grandmother was still from an intelligent and wealthy family. Generally unprofitable to get married. Zina laughed at her; she and her husband already had an apartment and even a car! The car was the same luxury, as now - a personal airplane. Twenty years later, Zina's husband left for the young girl.And Zina was already seriously ill as a woman - to live with an unloved man is difficult and harmful ... And there is nothing good left. Diseases, age - then it was considered old age, unhappy life. And my grandmother gave birth to three children, lived in love, she did not hear the rude words of her life. And until old age believed that it was necessary to introduce an article for treason in the criminal code. So wild to her treachery seemed an act. As treason to the Motherland. This is because she was happily married, and she did not understand something. As well as benefits. And up to ninety years and did not understand about the benefits. It is in personal relationships. And I agree with her. The only benefit in love is to be loved one by one. To know that you, too, are loved more than life. And love yourself.That's all the catch. And sometimes there is no such thing - they generally do not like the benefits ... There are no guarantees of love. There is no certainty that a loved one will not get sick, he will not become poor, he will not perish or will not leave. And profitable can turn into a terrible bankruptcy, a loss. And love will pass by. It's not just unprofitable - it's scary.βπΌπ