They say that when you can tell your story without crying you will know that you have already overcome or are ready for a new stage or something new. I like to write a lot. It relaxes me and makes me feel good, but I never thought to write about myself or my life, but I think that you could feel identified or maybe something similar or similar has happened to you ..
I met my daughter's father in a civil construction course, it was not love at first sight, jaaaajaa it was laughter at first sight since his sense of humor made me gasp, our instructor always made jokes about a possible, relationship between us but I nor pending him at all I only saw him as a friend ..
Until one night, after we finished our course, between some glasses of wine, and a vibrant moon, he stole a kiss from me jaaaajaa and expressed his feelings towards me and I loved it. and agree to be his girlfriend.
after a year of relationship between high and low we decided to get married
between songs and dances we celebrate our union ..
After a few months of being married, we both got good jobs that increased our income but also problems since we were both in different cities for work reasons.
he with his computers and systems and I passionate about my safety and health at work ..
after a while we were back in the same city, although he had to go to a rural town frequently, he has to maintain some teams.
I was calmer, because finally we would be more united after a few months I got pregnant with a beautiful girl ..
I noticed my husband was very strange and he didn't seem to be happy with our baby, he had changed his way of being to 100%
Until one night, I confronted him and asked him what was happening to him because of his change and he confessed to me, what was happening to him, he told me that in the rural area, where he was working, he had met a girl, who had made him change the prospect of our relationship, my tears began to flow and my face turned red with anger. But the most terrible thing is still missing. He told me that he had made this lady pregnant, that is, we both got pregnant in two month difference times.
that is to say my daughter has a brother of the same age ..
by virtue of this situation we separated as a couple, but for the psychological well-being of my baby we maintain a good relationship of friendship and well, thank God I see that child as a son but little by little I began to understand that each person fulfills a time in our life and he comes to bring us a teaching now I want to work more on my raising my daughter and looking for the best well-being and happiness .. for people who go through a situation so only God can heal the wounds and the time we must also separate when we are not valued hugs from Venezuela ..
If we can remember everything negative and instead of feeling terribly bad, you can remember things feeling that you have made peace with that past.
Therefore, the possibility of talking about the situation that has hurt us so much is an indicator that we are healing inside.