Love is a freedom, but not a freedom that does not recognize obligations. Love is a commitment that you keep, and the freedom of choice that you give to another person. I think it's important that our love doesn't become a choking hazard for the people we love. To observe obligations to the native person, but at the same time to allow him to breathe freely.
To love is to be there when you need to, and to step back a little when the space is too small for two. Once I talked to an elderly wise man, I liked his thought: "If my wife says that she is tired and wants to stay in the country in peace and quiet, my business is very quiet to bring food, leave them on the threshold of the house and also quietly remove herself so that she can relax."
Love is a responsibility that we voluntarily take upon ourselves. To love is to be due. "I don't owe anyone anything" is not about love. It doesn't owe you anything else. Absolutely nothing. You should. Must care, must be faithful, must serve man. It's about the love of freedom.
Love is security. Love means that next to you a person can be real. He is allowed to be weak, allowed to doubt, allowed to be ugly, allowed to get sick, allowed to make mistakes. Tantrums, quarrels, disputes, negative emotions, lack of courage and determination - not a reason to fall out of love with a person.
And is it possible to stop loving someone if love is a gift you share from the heart without asking anything in return. To love a person more than the actions he performs. To be near and in trouble and in joy, to be always in access, to be always in touch. Be the one they know he'll never betray.
It is important for children to know that family is the safest place in the world. It is important for aging parents to know that they are needed and loved, that they will be protected until the end of life. It is important for a husband to know that his wife loves him regardless of success at work, and it is important for his wife to know that he will be there regardless of how she will look in ten years and fifty years. And it's not about promises, it's about something else, something deep and real. It is not necessary to speak about it, it is necessary to live so that the one who nearby, felt safe, such life just about the real love.
Love is maturity and awareness. Love is the understanding that intimate relationships are impossible without crises, that the feeling needs time to Mature, that love cannot be a continuous holiday, love is the deepest work on oneself, first of all. Love is a series of deaths and new births, love is the exposure of the most vulnerable points, love is the courage to be real, love is the courage to enter uncharted territory.
Love or not-always our personal choice, no need to impose it on another person. The beauty of true love is to give with all your heart and be grateful that the other has agreed to accept it. The one who can love is doomed to be happy. It is not a matter of whether you have been loved at least once, but whether you have managed to become so deep and Mature as to live with an awakened heart. Love is light, love is the radiance of the heart, love is the best that we can give to the world around us.
