I have returned friends from hive, and today I bring you some tips to know if you are in a toxic relationship.
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1-. You cannot be yourself. The most important thing in a healthy relationship is that you can be yourself. If the relationship is full of reproaches and corrections of how you think or how you act they should start to raise alarms. The normal thing is to feel admiration for the other, encourage him in what he does and congratulate him on his achievements, not to minimize successes and continually point out what is done wrong.
2.- Stagnation. If your partner closes doors for you, try to limit the activities you like or the people with whom you interact and every time you feel that your life is more limited, be careful! she is thinking more of herself than of you.
3.- control: if you feel that your partner wants to know everything about you, you cannot have anything private and wants to know what you are doing at all times, then he is trying to control you, not know you better. Of course looking at your mobile or email or demanding that you show them what you write or who you talk to is an unequivocal sign of control. Control has to do with insecurity and fear of losing the other and often leads to anger if you do not do what that other person wants.
4.- Lack of respect. Insults or contempt, both in public and in private, have nothing to do with love. When a person does not feel valid, he tries to lower the other, sometimes unconsciously, to have power over him and feel superior.
5.- Jealousy. Jealousy has nothing to do with love, it has to do with fear. Fear of losing yourself that causes control over your life. Although sometimes it gives us assurance that the other person is jealous, the important thing in a healthy relationship is TRUST.
6.- Discussions. In a relationship it is normal to have discussions, but when they are very repetitive or the tone is very strong or violent, that is no longer normal.
7.- And finally, remember that a toxic relationship is a thing of two. Do not forget the topic, in order to love someone in a healthy way you first have to love yourself
I hope you liked my tips to know if you are in a toxic relationship.
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See you later, I love you.
