A farmer can't plant a crop and believes nature will make it robust. Nature brings both life and death. That is, it brings both nourishment and weeds to choke that plant. The weed is there to choke the beauty of the crop, that is why, you can't start something and believe it will grow without watching it. You have to be observant enough to uproot weeds that can choke your crop. Now you know that nature is naturally not ready to help, why then add your self to be against you?
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Being against yourself means never loving yourself, always feeling guilty, always ready to put blame back to you, never convinced by who you are, always needing someone to motivate you and always feeling something is wrong with you. The bitter truth is that, you can't control everything around you to the fullest but you have yourself under control 100%. That is the only remote you are in charge of, the remote that controls you. It is therefore important to warm up yourself into positivity and happiness. Your life is not a game, it is not a trial, it is your one time reality.
Many shits are happening in our world, depression eating up the hearts of men, suicide taking people lives, poverty becoming a common language, hike in prices with contant wages is leading people to suffering, corruption and Corona virus killing people everyday. The world is ready to deal with you only if you are observant to take out the weed. That is, if only you can access internal acceptance which can only be possible if you are not against yourself.
Many don't understand what love is and that is why they can't give it nor access it personally. Love is unconditional, there is no such thing has "unconditional love", the context "love" itself has no conditions, so putting a prefix or suffix is not necessary. You need to continue loving yourself even if you flawed in some areas of your life. Things out there may not be good to you, but be good to yourself by unlocking the very key and purpose of your wellbeing.
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This part has been most people concern, where a large number of people are living their present lives in the past which is really unfair for them. They get all worked up, guilty, filled with regrets and depression. But hey, like i said earlier, you have your very button in your hands, not even the second that passed by right now can come back again, so why base your future on an irreversible moment? Dropping the past will help you develop a better mental and physical healthy balance in your life which will spring up joy from within.
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Your life is not a game nor a trial but your life is a reality that as trials. You facing trials does not mean that is the very end of your life. Many people problems have choked them to the extent that they see them selves has jumpers from one issue to another which leads them to survival mode. They don't have dreams anymore nor want to give a try. There is nothing that brings sadness to man who gave up his dreams, his face may not wear the disappointment but his spirit will which will lead to an unhappy being. The key to this is to determine your state of mind from within not from the world and its chaos. If you depend on nature to make you happy forever, get ready to be a victim of depression.
Being against Yourself won't help this very matter but embracing your self from your values and principles will.
In conclusion, don't point fingers at yourself, taking responsibility is different from taking blame. Learn to differentiate the two.
