If you were watching a movie of your life and you were the main character, would you be happy with how the story is going?
This morning, I got some sparkles. I think that if I were to watch a movie of my life and I as the main character, I wouldn't be really happy with how the story is going. And that realization, I think is important that as the main character in my own movie, I can't continue living like this.
In a plot, this is the inciting incident, where the character realizes something then does something, meets a setback, a growth, then it all settles down.
Our life is probably similar like that where it's like a progression of a movie. There's conflict, resolution, etc except sometimes it takes years to resolve the conflict or undergo the pain. Some people choose to unalive themselves for the ending, which is a bit tragic but some movies can also be like that. Then, there's zero to hero story which is a bit rare but it exist somehow.
Personally, if my life was a movie, I am still in the conflict phase going to find some resolution to it & I'd say with endless conflicts, I am starting to see the way out of it.
Here's what I recently learned from the "characters" I met in my life :
- Be delusional about your dream
- Stop chasing absolute perfection
- Fix as you go
- Never accept bad clients but also don't say no.
- Have some leverage
- Never believe that people has your best interest. Only you have the best interests for yourself.
- Be content with the idea that nobody is going to save your sinking boat. Find ways to survive whatever it takes.
- Protect your boundaries
- Never gossips about anyone, especially those at work.
- Be very diplomatic with your answers especially to strangers
- Know when to flaunt the wealth/not. Situational awareness and context matters.
- Though tempted, never show all your cards.
- Have the freedom to choose and options to not do stuff you dislike.
For the time being, I am simply enjoying the progression of the story but I certainly need to change things a little because in the end, I am not happy with the progression of how things are in my life. So, what about you? Are you happy with how your story is going?
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