What is life meant to you?
Man has different perception about life. But most of individuals wants to have a perfect life. There was this point of my life that I felt so lost, because they are judging and criticizing me because of uncertainties. I was stumbled and fall on my knees and felt so helpless.
When I was taking up my second course, I got pregnant out of marriage. Majority of my clan are the first one who judged and criticized about me. And even my parents felt that way too. It is like the whole world fall on me, it was hard to move on and rise up from where I fell down.
But what I did is, I prayed to God and asked guidance and wisdom in choosing my own decisions. So I never give up, I stand up and show them that I can pursue on my dreams. And right now I am now on my 3rd year proper as a dental student and I am about to finish the course. My parents, my husband and specially my kids are so happy and proud about me.
It's a nature of man to looked more on negative things, than good ones. They are liked this waves, trying to hit and bit this rock, but they can't break it.
I will cite an example, a piece of a white bond paper and a pen. Make a dot on any side of it. The white part are the good things you did, and this dot is the wrong thing that you've done. We see here that this little dot serves as a dirt on this piece of a white paper. And they keep their eyes on this little dot.
This is a wrong perception of man. They keep on judging, criticizing and dragging you down and pointing out your mistakes, instead they shoul've strengthen and guide you to be a better person.
Knowing your weakness and failure in life, will certainly serves as a lesson and not to give up. You should rise up and proved them that you can live life without them. Because they can't help you, instead you are the one who can helped yourself. It is you who will drived your own journey of life.
Life is like a sunset, sometimes you are losing hope, thinking that life might end up to darkness, but remember that there is light after sunset.
Believed in yourself, and live life the way you wanted. Do things beyond your limits and more than your own expectations. Never let them hinder you, in pursuing your dreams. Focus and do not be distracted by their negative thoughts. And never forget to seek God in all you do, for He will guide you, protect you and lift you up when your down and weary.
All the photos are originally mine
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