Cheers on writing being the thing that helps to sort things out. Thing is, it is not so easy to reflect and figure stuff out so often it is easier to just

It is uncomfortable, most people don't like uncomfortable. They avoid it and then burst, and even after the fact they mostly don't understand how it happened, how it all bottled up like that.

But hey, sometimes good things also happen. Here's to hoping that the arrive on time! pops champagne