But really, it is about luck a lot as I feel almost every parent passes down their worst traits to kids. The issues I have weren't directly from my parent, but from their parent. I was the lucky one to get them xD Bet the same is for countless others. And then the luck of where we end up in our lives, the stresses we go through, the living situations, environment, the health systems available at our disposal. It all affects each and every one of us and nothing is as simple as it appears. But you are right that each person just got to do the best with what they got and even then we fail.

xD yea lol so lucky

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