Have you ever felt disappointed with something? Or feel like a failure and have no more motivation to live life. Almost everyone has probably experienced it. Stress, frustration to depression due to painful and disappointing experiences.
Can humans organize their lives for the better? So that you avoid failure, disappointment, and pain. It is humane when someone makes a failure or mistake in life. Wrong in taking steps and choices. Even though every event in life is unpredictable, it can be controlled by understanding the most important essence of life itself.
Many people have to struggle hard to fulfill their daily needs. However, many also experience the emptiness of life to the point of experiencing psychological problems. This happens because many people live their lives for things that are not important. They are unable to see and put forward the most important things in life.
Every human being born into this world carries something within him, which is a calling. Usually, he is seen in the form of talent in a person. Those whose hearts are called singers usually have good and beautiful voices. People who are called to become teachers usually have a talent for educating.
So, one of the most important things in life is knowing yourself. What the heart wants and what talents it has. Through this knowledge, a person will be able to develop himself. Even with the abilities a person has, he will be able to help and benefit the lives of others. For that, always follow the call of the heart.
Modern humans tend to have an exploitative way of thinking, namely using nature and other humans for their interests. Humans who think in this way, see things as merely a tool that can be used to meet physical and emotional needs as humans. This way of thinking then gave birth to human slavery. Also, the destruction of nature for economic gain.
Nature and humans who come from different social backgrounds are considered as tools that can be used to meet their needs. This way of thinking is what ultimately creates an emptiness in human life. Humans do not respect each other, but take advantage of each other to satisfy their own needs. Even though the most important thing in life is mutual respect.
Humans should change exploitative thinking into appreciation. A way of thinking that does not only judge according to use value but thinks to respect nature and other humans that are valuable in itself. Through this appreciative way of thinking, humans can feel happy. Because living quite emotionally, and forging meaningful relationships with nature and other humans.
The most important thing in life is being able to distinguish between personal space and common space. Personal space is life and things belonging to oneself, while common space is everything related to the lives of many people. Corruption is born from the inability of humans to distinguish between personal ownership and shared ownership. Thus, people use the shared property or even owned by others for their gain.
Humans should have an anti-corruption awareness and attitude. If not, life will not be calm because it is colored with attitudes of indifference, hatred, suspicion, anger which can lead to conflict. By cultivating an anti-corruption attitude, people can build a civilized society. Everyone will feel a happy life because they have the opportunity to develop themselves and their families. In this short life, humans should focus on developing things that are important in life.
In life, many people are trapped by various common views which, although true, are wrong and meaningless. This is known as a cliché. For example, Batak people are loud, Minang people are stingy, or anything that comes from America and Europe is always better. This kind of viewpoint obscures a person from the real truth. One of the most important things in life is fighting cliches.
That is the most important thing in life as a human being. Good or bad the life that a person lives depends on the way he thinks and looks at things. It is appropriate as a human being to use reason and heart in interpreting every side of life that is lived. Life is not only about yourself but the people and nature around you.
