Loneliness is very easy to name but it is difficult to give the word "lonely" a worthy definition that is true for everyone.
Everyone doesn't like loneliness, nor does she understand what loneliness is, but just call her lonely name.
I'm lonely.
Who can give us a precise definition of that. Is loneliness when there is nobody to love? Or when I'm alone, or maybe I'm here sitting in a coffee shop alone and writing this article, so is it lonely?
I cannot define loneliness but I am sure that any of you have called the name "Loneliness" a few times in your life. No, I have to say many times in my life.
Loneliness is an emotional state
Loneliness is not a disease but it is just an emotional state, so sometimes we can experience that feeling. Happy, the greater the happiness, the more lonely it will be when it comes to loneliness. Fortunately, they do not happen much and often.
Loneliness is also the choice
Loneliness is also a choice! That's exactly what I want to say. Is it when you lie flat in your room, don't talk to anyone and think the whole world is against you. Then it is lonely! Think again to see if the life I just told you was chosen by you? You choose to stay indoors instead of going out or meeting a friend, you still turn on facebook to surf newfeed indefinitely but you don't choose someone to talk to. You shrink yourself and accept yourself as the person in the box.
Herry Ford said, "Whether you think you may or may not, you're right . " Each of us lives in a common world of galaxies, the vast universe. But that world is nothing compared to one's own world - the world of mind, the world that each person creates for himself.
In my own world and you are big with many different things but also very similar, so you and I can be friends with just a few things in common, such as: interested in xxx, books, coffee, travel, business, pencil ... What's the world of loneliness? It must be said that the lonely person is an extremely selfish person when they just want to keep their own world protected, they do not want anyone to enter their world but actually remove everything from their world. yourself. They see only themselves in that vast world.
Have you seen the series: "The Last Man on Earth"? The guy in the movie is too lonely to want to commit suicide but is afraid of death. So loneliness can make us want to die, in a world where we are alone.
So how to live alone?
It is strange that I say "living with loneliness" instead of getting rid of loneliness. Because I think loneliness is also the beauty of it, sometimes when we have to choose the moments to enjoy loneliness. Loneliness is not true, only loneliness. That is the choice, each person's way of looking at loneliness. Loneliness I want to talk about is isolated from the outside world to choose for myself a quiet and quiet place for myself.
Loneliness can lead you to think of death in many different ways, but on the contrary, loneliness is the time when you look back on yourself instead of looking at the world, creating different types of things. Thinking about people, what we have experienced that we did not tell others and suddenly realized that we are not girls or are we bisexual ...... Another lonely advantage is also the time you spend yourself doing the things you love, and maybe you realize it's your passion.
"My friend mentioned the old story
My friend, do not mention the old story
I have forgotten the old story
Forget to remember today. "
Hai Bot wrote such a song, lonely when we are among friends who only know how to tell stories.
Well, for loneliness if you have a slightly different perspective, you've seen a lot of interesting things like that. In spirituality also says: "The peak of loneliness is the ultimate freedom", you don't question anything, you feel as light as a cloud flying in the sky.
Instead of interrupting talking to the outside world, it is lonely to connect with work, with nature, everything we can feel. We create, create freely, create from the heart.
One day, I wandered on google to find information, I read an article about a girl born in 1993, who is doing her startup has a very interesting motto:
"The best way to predict your future is to create it".
The best way to predict your future is to create it
Instead of sitting groping about loneliness, you can live with it, give it a new meaning, for it is a time for you to create yourself. It is also a time to break past limits and release your power.
Tonny Robbins also wrote that when you reach your bottom, you have nothing to lose, you have no other way to rise, so rise up as strongly as possible.
I'm so lonely.
