Monster for what?
Being yourself?

Okay, see it from another light. If you didn't say those words, what would you have called yourself (a name would suffice, if you could😁)?

She shouldn't be aware of your predicament because you didn't think about her own predicament.
Man, my daughter is safe in the hands of doctors who are competent, let me rush and take this time... You never can tell what was going on for her also.

As @Tanjakoler said, take the "high road" communicate in a calm manner. Don't be the first to engage. Don't engage at all.

This is just the beginning, you'd still see drama, wait for it.
Finally, I wasn't there but always do the best at all times.