Hi @blessing33 welcome to Hive. I'm @palomap3 from Lovesniper OCD team.

You made me laugh with that bit about the strange words your friends used, hehe. We've all felt that way at first, but you'll soon learn and love being here. You have many different talents, and I see we share a love of reading for personal development. I've also read Atomic Habits, which I really liked and have put into practice for several things. It works! And right now I'm reading The 48 Laws of Power, and I agree with your impression: silence is power. Follow the advice of @kingdomzy and @kingsleyy and you'll do well here. I recommend that you explore the communities I link below.

Tips and information as a Hive newbie here: newbie guide.

Communities you might like that are part of the OCD Communities Incubation Program. Important: read their rules and post in the one that fits your content.

Have a good day!