Estuve muy consternado en una pregunta que me hicieron hablando con amigos la cual no se si aun tengo claro cual ees la respuesta. Hoy hay una grancontroversia social con respecto a los vinculos que nos gusta, que es lo que queremos y que es lo que debemos. Quiero usar como punto de partida el concepto que hoy barajamos y esta instaurado es esto de que uno es autosuficiente y puede todo solo. Desde esa premisa primera vinieron tantas otras.
La cuestion es que esta saco a relucir el concepto antiguo de que uno tiene que estar con uno mismo y tiene sque ser auttosuficiente. La autosuficiencia prroducctiva la relacionan o esta relacionada intimamente con la emocional porque la emocionalidad influye en lass personas de modo que las puede hacer mass o menos productivas de un momento a otro.
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Hoy en dia estamos tan desbordados por tanta producttividad que solo es importante estar bien para cubir todas nuestras necesidades capitalistas y mes a mes suelen ser mass las presiones que tenemos para llegar a cumplirlas entonces si a eso le debemos sumar la emocionalidad de intentar abrirse a conocer a un otro, de hacer el intento de mostrarnos, o como dicen ahora, de hacer el esfuerzo o invertir tu tiempo en conocer buscar o que te conozcan esto implica una perdida de energia para tus necesidades primariass las cuales son mas importantes que el amor, segun este concepto.
Sin darnos cuenta se instauro esa idea de que nosotros tenemos que ser mas suficientes y el concepto se fuee corriendo a la autosuficiencia emocional y la realidad es que no tiene nada que ver. Ahora cada vez hay mas personas que toman un papel en donde es mejor estar solo, se jactan diciendolo y viviendo de esa manera, y si es cierto que es muy lindo tener tiempo para uno, es cierto que uno tiene mas tiempo para compartir con amigos, no tieene que dar explicaciones, tampoco tiene que estar preocupandose por un otro o pasar un mal momento, por una discusion o algo que te quite energia cuando te despertass un domingo a la mañana no te pasa nada?, No te dan ganas de tener una amiga intima que le cueentes todo y te de un abrazo y un beso, con quien te podes reir y tambien podes ponerte mal y que este. Una persona que cuando te sentis mal vaya a cuidarte o a quien cuidar cuando este enfermo. Con quien poder organizar un viaje y que ademass de todo lo que estamos mencionando te guste fisicamente y te den ganas de estar cogiendo como dos animales de la fforma mas salvaje y tambien otras veces hacer el amor y hacerse uno mientras este momentro transcurre y que cuando terminas te reis y te miras de forma complice o te abrazas y se quedan juntos ?
Lo cierto es que hoy en dia esta muy polarizado ese tema y hay muchas opiniones diferentes entre el amor y la pasion quien elije que. hay muchos que no quieren tener vulnerabilidad afectiva y solo eligen la pasion, un poco para resguardarse y otro poco porque les gusta mass vivir solos y tener todo solos y encontrarse solo para tener sexo y pasion. Y por el otro lado quienes eligen ser lo mass vulnerables que pueden para conocer el amor y vivir sus vidas atravesados por el.
Me parecio una pregunta tan linda a desarrollar y compleja que no podia poner unas fotos de otra cosa mass que de Orquideas! Son tan complejas y tan bellas al mismo tiempo como este tema que estaba desarrollando y creo que el Amor como lass orquideas son de las mass lindas del mundo.
English Version
I was very dismayed at a question I was asked talking to friends which I don't know if I still have clear what the answer is. Today there is a great social controversy regarding the bonds we like, what we want and what we should. I would like to use as a starting point the concept that today we are considering and it is established that one is self-sufficient and can do everything by oneself. From that first premise came so many others.
The point is that this one brought up the old concept that you have to be with yourself and you have to be self-sufficient. Productive self-sufficiency relates it or is intimately related to emotional self-sufficiency because emotionality influences people in a way that can make them more or less productive from one moment to the next.
Nowadays we are so overwhelmed by so much productivity that it is only important to be well to cover all our capitalist needs and month to month the pressures we have to fulfill them are usually more, so if to that we must add the emotionality of trying to open up to meet another, to make the attempt to show ourselves, or as they say now, to make the effort or invest your time in getting to know, to seek or be known, this implies a loss of energy for your primary needs which are more important than love, according to this concept.
Without realizing it, this idea that we have to be more sufficient was installed and the concept ran to emotional self-sufficiency and the reality is that it has nothing to do with it. Now there are more and more people who take a role where it is better to be alone, they boast saying and living that way, and if it is true that it is very nice to have time for oneself, it is true that you have more time to share with friends, you do not have to give explanations, you do not have to be worrying about someone else or spend a bad time, for an argument or something that takes energy when you wake up on a Sunday morning nothing happens to you? You don't feel like having a close friend who you can tell everything to and who gives you a hug and a kiss, with whom you can laugh and you can also get upset and who is there for you. A person who will take care of you when you feel bad or who will take care of you when you are sick. A person with whom you can organize a trip and that in addition to everything we are mentioning you like physically and you feel like fucking like two animals in the wildest way and also other times make love and become one while this moment passes and when you finish you laugh and you look at each other in an accomplice way or you hug and stay together ?
The truth is that nowadays this subject is very polarized and there are many different opinions between love and passion, who chooses which. There are many who do not want to have affective vulnerability and only choose passion, a little to protect themselves and a little because they like to live alone and have everything alone and meet only to have sex and passion. And on the other side those who choose to be as vulnerable as they can to know love and live their lives through it.
I thought it was such a nice question to develop and complex that I couldn't put some pictures of anything else but Orchids! They are as complex and as beautiful at the same time as this theme I was developing and I think Love like orchids are some of the prettiest in the world.
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