Life is an option. I agree with that sentence. How do we respond to life, that's the choice.
How lucky if we live in a family that can equip us to become an independent person. Able to survive in difficult life, simple, and helpful. Parents also give priority to education so that we have the motivation to move forward and succeed. Proven we always try to find opportunities to survive, although the trials come and go. Brother died, Grandma broke our bones and accident, but we keep trying to survive, even trying to keep Parents. When one by one the person we care about dies.
We must try to re-attach the loose family relationships. This is a positive form of our responsible nature of compassion. Indeed we have to keep trying to stay good and not to hurt people like parental advice. But we have to be firm and convey what we feel. This is not a form of hurting others. Too succumbing and being too submissive does not always make things better. Convey the things that block, then discuss and make decisions. We may demand what we are entitled to. This is not just about material, but also not to be considered weak. Not positioning yourself as a helpless defender. Easy to be deceived and considered non-existent. Remember, how people behave to us, it will be up to our own behavior.
Well, be firm for the flow of the problem, and find the solution. This will not reduce your quality as a patient and sincere person. Nor does it mean regretting the choice or not being grateful. Eliminate our ugly, elderly feelings and so on. Actually, people see our belief in ourselves, we must be a tough person.
Lucky someone who becamqe our life partner. Say it over and over to yourself. Do the opposite. Remember, our beliefs will affect our attitudes and behavior. Later if we find something that does not match expectations, do not blame yourself.
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