For me, it is not fair to blame God for the bad things that happen to us. Bad things happen because of the wrong decisions that we have made. God is our creator so He does not want us to lead a life full of mistakes. He wants us to live a good life but we get distracted by the glittering treasures of the world that we don't take notice on the good things that God has given us. We are very happy living the good life when all of a sudden, everything got lost and we blame Him for it. But, before you blame God for all the bad things, did you thank Him for all the blessings that he showered you? Or, you give yourself all the credit, because you worked for it?
Did you give thanks to God that you are still alive, breathing and kicking? Or do you say you are alive because you took care of your health?
Did you thank God for the food that you eat? Or do you say you worked hard for it?
There are many hings God has given us everyday. The chance to celebrate life with your family and friends, the air that we breath, the sun, everyone around you, the water that we drink, your job, your car and many more. But we fail to realize it until we are tested by God and blame Him for the bad things when in the first place, it is us who did not acknowledge His presence.
If you don't give thanks to God for all the wonderful things, then you sure have no right to blame Him for all the bad things. Maybe that bad thing you consider is a way of God to make you realize that He is the reason for Everything and the credit should be for Him alone, not yours.