Dear husband,
I really need you to understand why I'm deciding to leave. You see, it's not you and it's not me. It is us together that fail to make our relationship thrive. I feel I need more from you and you certainly need more from me. I wish you could hold me like I see others hold each other. I wish you could talk to me the way I see you talk to others. You stopped caring about my opinion and started to create your own agenda. I became angry, hurt and upset. I'm entitled to my emotions but no one should ever treat you like shit. I do treat you like shit and for that, I'm sorry. I fell in love with your smile and the way you cared for your daughter. You stepped in and became dad to my daughter. I guess I just need someone to go on adventures with, is romantic and loves to cuddle. That's not you. You hate my lifestyle and I hate yours.
To the guy I'm about to leave.
I hope you know I do love you. We both just need more.
Love,
Your wife.