Parents have a lot of responsibilities on them and one of those responsibility is raising a kid or child, it's really difficult task to raise a good kid, i personally think that this is the tough part when you've to raise a kid and learn your kids all good and bad things about the life.
I'm not a mom till now but obviously i see mom's how they raise their kids and how both parents raise them and punish them after doing something bad and learned them a lesson but that's all is really very difficult. When i was a kid my parents sometimes used very strict thing's to me but not in that very harsh way, maybe because I'm a girl because i see mostly parents give strict punishment to boys, although it's wrong too to give strict punishment to boy's because they're obviously just kids and there's a lot of way's to teach them.
I saw that one of my cousin raise her baby girl in front of us, we're living in a joint family system although now she's moving abroad. But i saw that she used very bad punishment to her, whenever she do the thing which wasn't allowed for her, she took her in the room, lock the room and then beat her little baby girl. I don't know how much harshly she beat her but i can only listen her crying and after some time i saw that she feels fear from thing's.
This behavior really like a psycho patient that you beat her own child, i know it's your child and you've responsibility to teach him or her manner but being physical punishment really not a good idea. You know i noticed that girl lose confident, she becomes very weak after some years, she has a full burden of studies which also not a good thing because being a topper in the class isn't the only option.
I don't know why parents show such kind of behavior, age between 3 to 7 it's the age when your kids need good treatment not a physical punishment treats because that's the main reason which causes a lot of stress in your child when he becomes adult because he has fear which later stop him to do many things.
It doesn't mean give harsh or physical punishment to kids turn into good kids because this generation is something else and different generation as now babies or kids can't tolerate all these punishment. In my opinion there are other way's too to give punishment to kids but this is against humanity when you beat your kids not that you don't beat them now, life is changing and we've to change the way's too.
That's all for today and it's my entry in this week hive learner contest in #hl-exclusive for the topic of #hl-w218e2.
