I think if you have elders in your home then you are the lucky one. They are the beauty of our homes. Some people don't want to take care of their parents when they become old and can't take care of themselves but it's their fault to not take care of their parents.
When we born, we are no one to this world and our parents gave us a name and then burn their midnight oil for us to make us something, to reach us to a point in this cruel world. We have nothing and they take care of us till we can't reach at the stage when we start to earn and start to take care of ourselves.
In my opinion obviously we should take care of our elders after retirement because when we can't earn for ourselves then our elders did snd now it's their time to sit at home and we've to earn for them. I'm not agree to that point of view that we should send elders to retirement homes after their retirement.
My father-in-law will retire in February 2025 and obviously he'll not have job after his retirement. Only two month left in his retirement and i know that my husband always their to fulfill their needs and I'll also be there for their support. I'm not so selfish that now he's retired and I can't take care of himself.
My husband has a good job with good studies and i know behind the scene only his father who help him to reach at this stage. If he doesn't send him in good school and university then how could it possible that today my husband has a good job. His Dad put a lot to make his good base which start with his education.
We all know the parents struggle in their children's life and we should keep those struggle in our mind. I never said that my father-in-law isn't my dad then why i take care of him, because i know he's my husband's Dad and he loves him as i do love my Dad.
Now we've enough money that we can afford their needs too but if we will have financial problems in someday in future then my wish will be take care of them just like we do it now. And i know if we will have financial problems then he'll support us morally and what other thing we should want. That's why we should keep them with us in our home.
We can't return to our parents but at least we can take care of them and in this way they think our child respect us and we should respect our elders.
That's all for today and it's also my entry in this week #hl-exclusive for the topic #hl-w144-e2.
