Many people come and go in our life, every day many new incidents happening with us some have reason to memorized while some are just flow with time. Our life is like a diary with a lot of characters and incidents happening in our diary or book.
I'm that kind of person, let it go if it hurts. Mostly i can't take revenge or can't say something in reaction, i stay calm and peaceful for the world. There's a lot of people in my life who came here just to make me hurt but I say it's ok let it go.
Forgiving means in my diary that forgive and leave that person or thing. It doesn't mean if someone hurts me then I'll stuck to that person. For me move on is the most important thing to make myself a better version oh human. To do progress in my life i need to forgive and let it go.
Sometimes, I can't agree myself to forgive others when actually they broke my trust or i can say it depends on the severity of incident but yes then i leave all those people to God that he'll do better to them , as he'll take better revenge and leaving all my things on God and staying calm is the most better thing for my mental health.
Sometimes it's really hard to forget those people who hurt me, it's really difficult to forget the worst experience of my life but then i can make it easy too by keeping myself busy in different activities. It's good to forget but i think sometimes it's not good to forget like you forget what other did with you and you're again there to betrayal by them.
For me, forgiving is easy but believe me forgetting isn't easy as i remember those bad experience of life. But sometimes I thanked to time too who faded all those memories in our mind. As time is the biggest healer but it comes in long term like you need to take the decade but at the present time I feel difficulty to forget, i keep memorize them so that I'll not betrayal by them again.
But yes sometimes i forget easily if i don't want to memorize those stuff in my mind but it depends.
Actually forgiving is a conscious thing like we take decision because we want to do so, it up to us either we want to forgive or not but forgetting is unconscious thing like it's not in our control to forget but yes we give it a try but still in my dictionary it takes time to forget huhhhh maybe because I've sharp memory and sometimes it hurts.
That's all for today and it's my entry in this week hive learner contest in #hl-exclusive for the topic #hl-w178e2.
