Life isn't a bed of roses as we all know this truth. We have to give a lot of sacrifices in our life. We need to tolerate many things in our life too. Sometimes things are very easy for us while sometimes things are very difficult for us and we can't do those things.
After marriage almost every couple wish to be a parent, some wish to become parents sooner while some wish to become parents later as it's their decision to be parents when they're ready. But some parents can't conceive a child and i think it's really saddest thing. Well every problem has a solution too.
Surrogacy is a very complex procedure and it's not allowed in many countries while in some countries it's allowed to do surrogacy. Actually surrogacy is complex thing to perform invitro fertilization in a surrogate mother. Genetic parents are real while the parents who give birth are different and it's really complex in my terms.
In my country surrogacy isn't common, and i never saw it here maybe it's happening or I'm not aware of that but the process of adopting a child is very common here. Some parents adopt the child from adaptation centers while some adopt the baby from the their relative and the procedure is very common here in Pakistan.
I Know many families that adopt a child from their relative like sister or brother. In my neighbors there are four brothers live in a house. And all brother's are getting married now and have their kids too while one of them can't conceive a child. They want to have a baby too. They discuss it with their brothers that what if one of them give them a baby after birth. In this way the baby remain in the home but he/she called mom and dad to them. But they'll live together in a house.
One of his brother agreed to give their baby after birth. It's not the surrogacy because the fertilization is natural not invitro fertilization or also they didn't impregnate the fertilization. Genetic parents and the parents give birth are same but the parents who raise the kid will be different.
They adopt the baby after birth immediately or maybe after a day. Now that kid is of three year's old and he live there happily but you know rumors are everywhere and i know that people will tell him the truth when he'll become a boy because he already heard the rumors about his parents but now he can't understand but still people talk about it.
Mostly i saw that there's an agreement signed that now the actual parents can't speak in his matters but it depends on person as everyone has different mindsets because some allowed to speak while some aren't but I think if real parents start to speak in his matters then it'll be complex for a child because life already complicated for the kid when he heard the rumors that the parents he called mom or dad are not his real parents. So things will become complex.
That's all for today and it's my entry in this week hive learner contest in #hl-exclusive for the topic of #hl-w194e3.
