The way I deal with unexpected changes not necessary everyone will deal with them as I do. But many of you can try, who knows it may work!
Conservative people hardly can welcome unexpected changes and suffer from indecision because they don't know what to do and what to not. But as we know, if we human want, we can make things possible even it would be impossible. Some changes come into our life unexpectedly but taught us good things.
There are many positive and negative changes came to my life but with the time I used to those changes and turn some negative changes positive gradually. Some changes we plan and some are unplanned but as time goes we become wise when dealing with a lots of changes in life.
When my parents were alive they never left me alone and treat me like a little kid even when I was teen. After the death of my parents I saw darkness everywhere, the change was enough to change my life completely. Honestly it was not easy to deal with it at the beginning but with the time I realize that time taught us almost everything that we need to learn. I learn about people around me, accepted and deal with the change of their nature and behaviour to me. It took time but helped me to be strong and now it seems I can live alone till the rest of my life.
When you learn to live alone, you have no fear of losing anyone in life. When you know how to be strong, nothing can break you and make you cry like before. We women are emotional and when it is your weakness, many people will take advantage of it but when you have control over your emotions, it is your strength, no one can defeat you ever. Dealing with changes is a matter of time and when we learn dealing with changes, we can find a livable life where there none can hurt and break us. Even some negative changes bring something positive in our life. Not only believe this but also experienced this.
