I think you can like someone seeing them for the first time but I don’t believe there is love at first sight, in my opinion love takes time to grow, I think many of us confuse ourselves by saying(i loved you the first time i saw you)
how can you love someone whose assets or liability you cannot define.
it’s until you get to know a person that you can know maybe you love them or not.
lust and love are not the same thing,and that is why you see many marriages break in thier first month or two. some can even endure for years but because it’s built on lust they eventually break.
it definitely doesn’t take eternity to know maybe you really love someone but it requires making a decision and being ready to take the risk, being there with them through thick and thin, of course nobody is perfect but imperfections is what makes us human.
People start hating thier partner when the imperfections start springing up, when she didn’t wear her makeup, when you find out that he’s got no more money in his account, when he is no longer brilliant, when she cannot concieve.
you were only in love with her mary kay, his bently, or thier family connections, you may even be in love with her because of her body shape,
love happens slowly idea’s happens fast.
love at first sight is a fantasy land that many people like living in, they tell you I didn’t know what came over me when i saw her i just couldn’t help but to go talk to her,
if she was in a wheelchair with plastered covered chin would you have asked her out without knowing her before?
Like appeals to the outside of the person but love comes from the heart, God loved us even before were born because before we were born he knew us. it’s easy to love someone you have already known.
love is not a mortal word, its not from this world and it’s not to be used vainly, people train lions because they started training them since they were babies, it’s dangerous going into the forest to bring home an already mature lion to care for, that’s suicide.
we should ponder on that word “love” carefully before using it on someone, yes you can love more than two people at a time but you are bond to be more committed to the one you spend more time with than the other, unless of course you never loved the person.
seeing someone for the first time may send chills down your spine, that doesn’t mean you love the person, you only liked the idea of being together with them, if at that spot the person started a fued with someone and nobody was able to calm her down because she is too hot to handle, she starts raining all sort of curses on the person, you will realize that your interest in her will instantly dissolve. and that same person may instantly be dispised by you.
love at first sight is a mirage.
thanks for reading my post, bless you
