People often say love is beautiful, and at the same time, they also call it blind. I sometimes wonder, how can something be beautiful if it is blind? If we can’t see it, how do we know it’s as wonderful as people claim? That’s the confusing part about love, it has no clear definition. Everyone seems to describe it differently based on what they have experienced
For some people, love is about sacrifices. For others, it is about care and companionship. There are those who even measure love through material things, while some believe it is purely about feelings. Maybe the truth is that love cannot be defined by one single explanation. It is something personal, something you only understand when you have gone through it yourself
I have dated my share of women, but I can honestly say I have not felt real love with many of them. That changed when I met Comfort. She was the one person who showed me that love could be both simple and powerful at the same time. With her, I understood why people call love beautiful. She made me feel at peace, she made conversations easy, Unfortunately, we didn’t last. We didn’t fight, there was no big argument, but things just didn’t work out. The details are too long to explain here, but even now, I still carry feelings for her
That is the tricky side of love, it can be so strong, yet it doesn’t always guarantee forever. Some people fall in love and get married, spending their whole lives together. Others, like myself, taste love deeply but still lose it. It makes you wonder if the blindness people talk about is really about how we ignore the possible outcome when our hearts are full of emotions. Maybe when we are in love, we don’t always think about reality, we just allow ourselves to enjoy the beauty of the moment
Love can also be painful. To care deeply for someone and then lose them, either through breakup, distance, or even life itself, is not easy to deal with. Yet, despite the pain, many of us still believe love is worth experiencing. That shows how powerful it is. No matter how confusing, no matter how uncertain, human beings still long for it
So when the question comes, Have you ever been in love? my answer is yes. I may not have all the perfect stories, but I have felt it in my own way. And even though it didn’t last forever, I do not regret it. Love, whether it stays or fades, teaches us something about ourselves. It teaches us to care and to understand our own hearts better
Maybe that is why people keep calling love beautiful, even when it is blind. Because even when you cannot fully explain it, you know when you have felt it
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