I'm glad your test came back clear! It must be a huge weight off your shoulders.

I'm a blunt object too, the worse part, I don't think I care either(working in the oilfield as a woman I kind of have to be that way tho to be taken seriously). Sometimes people need to hear things they don't like in order to grow. There is still a way to deliver a message with tact tho... Don't let it beat you up so much, we all fuck up from time to time.