We are telling five tricks of the upbringing of the children, which can be very useful for the parents in the upbringing of the children. Whether you are a mother, a father, or you are going to be a parent, these consultations can be of great help to you.
Being a parent is a strange experience. You try to do something that nobody has ever known how to do it well. Even if you have 12 children, you are still learning. Maybe you have eleven children well, but in the twelfth you may have trouble. It is just a post to explain not to increase the population, if someone's heart is hurt by this post, then I apologize to all of you.
Create the Right Atmosphere - Creating the necessary environment plays a major role in the advancement of children. You should create the right type of environment where there is a feeling of happiness, love, care and discipline in you and your home. You can do this just for your child that you can love and support him. Make such love atmosphere for him, where intelligence develops naturally. A child sees life in the original form. So you sit with him and see life with the newness, as he sees. It is not necessary that your child should do the same in life, which you did. Your child should do something that you do not even have the courage to think about. Only then will this world go forward and useful things will happen.
Know Your Child's Needs - Some parents put them in a lot of trouble because of their desire or desire to strengthen their children. They want their children to become what they themselves cannot become. In an attempt to fulfill their ambitions through their children, some parents become very strict towards their children. Other parents believe that they love their children very much and take their children so much that they make them helpless and useless in this world.
There was a yogi who was related to a special tradition called Kashmiri Shaiva. It is one of the seven types of yoga. This is a very powerful way of yoga but it is mainly limited in the Kashmir region, hence it got this name. One day, this yogi saw a cocoon with a slight crack and the butterfly inside it was stammering to come out. The shell of cocoon was very strict. Normally the butterfly struggles for approximately forty-eight hours to come out of the cocoon. If he does not come out, then he dies. The yogi saw this and compassionately opened the cocoon with his nails so that the butterfly could be free. But when she came out she could not fly. The struggle to break out of cocoon makes the butterfly so strong that it can fly by using its wings. What work of a butterfly that cannot fly? Many people make their children like this in love. Such children cannot touch the height in their lives.
Not all rules apply to all children. Every child is different. This is a special discretion. No exact line can be drawn about how much and how much to do. Different children may need different scales of meditation, love and strictness. If I am standing in a coconut garden and you come and ask me how much water is to be given in every plant, then I will say, 'at least fifty liters.' But if you go home, put 50 liters of water in your rose plant give it, and then he will die. So you should take care of what kind of plant is in your house.
Learn from the Child - Many people assume that as soon as the child is born, the time to become a teacher starts. When a child comes to your home, it is not time to become a teacher, it is time to learn because if you look towards yourself and your child, your child is more happy, is not it? So it's time to learn about life from them, not to teach. You can teach just one thing to the child that you have to teach a little too some extent - how to work in living in the world. But when it comes to life itself, a child knows more about life than his experiences. She is life, she knows life. It also happens with you, that if you remove the effects imposed on your mind, then your life knows the energy of how to live. It is your mind who does not know how to live. An adult specializes in painting all sorts of pain on himself, all these troubles are in his mind. The child has not yet reached that position. So it is time to learn, not to teach.
Keep It Your Way - If parents really care about their children, then they should obey their children in such a way that the child never needs a parent. The process of love should always be a process of independence, not to be entangled. Therefore, when a child is born, let the child spend time with them, examine, experiment with nature and themselves. Create an atmosphere of love and cooperation. Do not try to impose your moral values, thoughts, religion or anything else on it. Just let it grow, let his intellect grow. Help him to look at life on his own terms as a mere human, not to identify him with family or your wealth or something else. Helping her to see life as a human being is very important for her happiness and prosperity of the world. This will be the best investment for your child. If you encourage your child to learn to think about yourself, then learn how to use your intelligence and understanding to find out what is better for him. If you do this then you can rest assured that your child will grow properly.
Be blissful and calm - If you want to nurture your child well, then first of all you should be happy. If your child gets daily stress, anger, fear, anxiety and jealousy, then what will happen to him? Surely he will only learn from these, is not he? If you really intend to raise your child well, then you have to transform yourself into a loving, happy and peaceful person. If you are not able to change yourself, then where is the question of raising your child well?
If we really want to nurture your child properly then first we should see if we can transform ourselves. Anyone who wants to be a parent should do a simple experiment. They should sit and see what is not right in their life and what is good for their life. Not for the external world, but for themselves. If you can change about yourself - your behavior, conversation, attitude and habits - in three months, then you can handle your child wisely.
However, you all are more intelligent than me but I want to know what all of you have about this post. You also share your opinion with me so that I can learn something from the experienced fellow like you.
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Kuldeep Singh
