Abundance Tribe's BiWeekly Question. The Most Valuable Lesson i Have Learnt In Life.
Life itself is like a journey and everyone have their own destinations , during the journey there will be alot of events and experiences , both good and bad events might occur , Good and bad experiences might occur too , but you just need to stay focused and prepared on how to just ensure that you get to your destination safely..
In life i have come to learn a great lesson that "NEVER COMPARE YOUR LIFE WITH THE LIVES OF OTHERS "..
I used to be guilty of that before , I keep trying to compare my life with the lives of others and I start believing that my life is stagnant while their own lives are very wonderful , I feel I am not good enough to have a better life and I believed their own life is better and they are having a great time which I might never have ..
But is that the true reality??nah it is not, the same people you are comparing yourself with also have their own challenges in life which you might not even be aware of , because you see them always looking happy and smiling do not mean everything is well or that they do not have their own challenges in life , the only difference between them and me back then is that they did not allow life challenges to ruin them and their psychology towards life , they quickly realize that they need to stay happy no matter the situations which they face..
We need to stop comparing our lives with others , instead of spending time to compare yourself with others , why not use the same time to focus more on your life and make yourself more relevant to yourself and the society..
Comparisons will only cause distractions for you , it will make you lose so much focus on your own life and your objectives , it can wreck your self esteem and make you feel you cannot do better than you are doing , it makes you feel depressed if not controlled , it makes you feel so envious of others too quickly and you start turning into a bitter person.
If you want to have a peaceful and happy life , then you need to focus on yourself and avoid distractions , stop trying to compare yourself with the way others live their life , your life is unique and you should handle it in a unique way which works for you , what works for others might not work for you and what works for you might not work for others..
So be careful what you wish for , have faith in yourself and your strengths and you will achieve alot...