Gin & Juice

While what I'm about to say may seem unrelated to the actual 'Gin & Juice' mixture, it's a point to note that it symbolizes 'chemistry', wait a second, still sounds like a sales pitch for a drink, well what I'm actually referring too is human coexistence and synchrony.

Today I'm briefly focusing on relationships in a broad spectrum and your crucial role in the grand scheme of things.

As far back as we can tell the cultural and religious sense of relationships has been in existence since creation and has been used as a general label... Adam & Eve, to the best of our knowledge where the first 'item'. Well I won't venture into lecturing you from a perspective you are aware of. Relationships don't necessarily have to fall under the orthodox male/female or same sex context, to simply put I'm focused on the dynamics behind every union, be it friendship, family, school or workplace relationship.

Look around you for a brief moment, the people you are surrounded by even over your social media platforms, those you share a cup of coffee and laughs with, those you deliberately ignore for reasons best known to you or those who you don't even know exist out of your ignorance and I don't mean ignorance in a rude way, I mean, by your own passive observation of people. Do you by chance know there's a mechanism that moves every bit of it? I call it Gin & Juice, separately they have this harsh and sweet individual characteristic but together they form a bitter-sweet partnership, depending on your taste buds and receptors.

Humans are nothing but energy with a personality, negative energy, positive energy and neutral energy. Some people walk around with bad auras and wonder why they get ignored and see others getting loved by everyone else, but they, always attract people who fall on the negative end of the pole. Its hard to figure but if you put two negatively energized people together especially in a relationship then boom it's a downward spiral and vice-versa. A neutrally energized personality can flow with both sides but stands the risk of being drawn into a wave.

The world is ignorant of the dynamics that leads people to becoming radicalized and turned to terrorists as well as the dynamics that lead people to become a force for good. The World is also unaware of its potential to foster global peace and where that harnessable potential is rooted.

That individual that constantly got ignored and bullied at school more than often ends up carrying out an act of evil along the line and we go 'how did this happen' well in someway you contributed in creating that purpose and clearing that path to his/her 'psychological' issues.

So what role do you play in people's lives? Do you make the janitor feel more shittier or give him hope with a friendly smile, do you make the kid with low self esteem steer away from suicide or bring a gun to school? Do you encourage your spouse to get better at what he/she does or do you say discouraging things to further murder their ego? How do you relate with your kids? Are you supportive of their choices or do you always say 'NO' under the guise that you know what's best for them, of cause you do but sometimes it wouldn't hurt to see things from their binoculars too.